http://www.womens411.com en-us http://www.womens411.com N/A info@womens411.com Thu, 29 Jul 2010 13:18:43 -0500 20 http://www.womens411.com/articles/151/1/Saying-No-To-Toxic-Relationships After the long cold days of winter, spring sings her chipper song. As I write this, I have brightly coloured tulips to gaze at happily in my garden. Spring is a great time to start eating healthier, lighter food, wear bright colours, and get outdoors. It also happens to be a great time to fall in love. Perhaps scientists will one day reveal a specific chemical that flies around in the spring air that gets the pheromones going. Who knows? Maybe they already have?but before you take that exuberant leap into a special someone?s arms and fall head-over-heels, here are some suggestions to keep your head in the clouds, while your feet are firmly planted on the ground. info@womens411.com (Esther R. Kane) Thu, 12 Jul 2007 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/146/1/The-Life-of-a-Brokeback-Wife---An-Inside-Look-at-Same-Sex-Infidelity Brokeback Mountain provides a rare glimpse of what it's like to be a victim of same sex infidelity. Now that the controversy has subsided about kissing cowboys and homosexual love scenes, more people are likely to turn their attention to this overlooked aspect of the film. SummerInfidelity@gmail.com (Ruth Houston) Tue, 29 Aug 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/145/1/The-Truth-About-Cyber-Affairs Cyber affairs are the 'flavor of the day' when it comes to infidelity and extramarital affairs. The internet now ties with the workplace as the leading place for cheaters of both sexes to find willing partners with whom to have extramarital affairs. It has removed most of the risks associated with cheating on your mate. SummerInfidelity@gmail.com (Ruth Houston) Sat, 26 Aug 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/137/1/Do-Not-Let-Fear-and-Anxieties-Get-The-Best-of-You-In-Your-Relationships It can be tough to manage your fears and anxieties while in a relationship. Maintaining a relationship is tough enough let alone having to deal with your anxieties. As a result, here is a list of techniques and suggestions on what to do in managing your fears and anxieties while being in a relationship. info@womens411.com (Stan Popovich) Sun, 20 Aug 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/144/1/Top-10-Signs-of-Infidelty-and-Why-Knowing-Them-Won%26%2339%3Bt-Help-You-Catch-a-Cheating-Mate The obvious signs of infidelity - the top 10 signs -- are the signs the cheater will usually cover up. So instead, be alert for the subtle signs. These are the signs the cheater doesn't even realize he's displaying, so there's no way he can cover them up. Learn how to spot the subtle signs and you'll catch the cheater every time. SummerInfidelity@gmail.com (Ruth Houston) Wed, 09 Aug 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/118/1/Simple-Things-You-Can-Do-To-Put-The-Spark-Back-In-Your-Relationship In most relationships it isn?t huge issues that are causing the rift but more everyday, mundane things that can easily be remedied with a little effort. Here are a few things you can try to give your relationship a breath of fresh air. info@womens411.com (Gregg Hall) Sun, 30 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/71/1/Five-Stages-of-Partnership All partnerships, and all relationships for that matter, go through five predictable stages. Knowing these stages is like having a map that will help you to accurately assess where you are and where you can go. info@womens411.com (Layne and Paul Cutright) Sat, 22 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/30/1/How-to-Captivate-a-Man You've gone on one or two dates with a guy, and you're crazy about him. Now how do you keep him interested? How do you keep him coming back for more? info@womens411.com (Terry Hernon MacDonald) Fri, 21 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/29/1/How-to-Captivate-a-Man You've gone on one or two dates with a guy, and you're crazy about him. Now how do you keep him interested? How do you keep him coming back for more? info@womens411.com (Super Admin) Fri, 21 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.womens411.com/articles/28/1/How-to-Captivate-a-Man You've gone on one or two dates with a guy, and you're crazy about him. Now how do you keep him interested? How do you keep him coming back for more? It's easier than it sounds. You don't have to be able to speak a foreign language, live in a loft in a trendy neighborhood, drive a hybrid, or be able to bolt tequila shots without flinching. You don't even have to be particularly great looking. Or funny. You don't have to be anything but yourself. Sure, you may be thinking, but I'm not all that interesting. In fact, I'm actually kind of boring. At the end of the day, who isn't? The key to captivating a man is to cultivate and maintain interests of your own. This means: 1) You never cancel a night out with a friend to go out with him--ever. (Why don't you just tell the guy you're desperate and afraid to let him out of your sight?) 2) You continue to pursue your hobbies, your career, and your relationships with friends and family at the rate you did before you started dating. In other words, you keep a full life. If the guy tells you he can't see you this weekend, don't ask him why. Let him volunteer the information. If and when he does, tell him to have a good time and mean it. Chances are, he'll be intrigued enough to ask you what your plans are for the weekend. Keep your answer vague (especially if you don't already have plans). Tell him that you may go out with friends, and then go home and call one or two to line something up. It's also quite attractive to a man when you are not available to pick up every time he calls. If the phone rings while you're in the shower, let him leave a message and wonder where you are. I do not advise you to lie or to play games, and I do not advocate manipulation, but ask yourself: Do you like men who follow you around, hang on your every word, and call you more often than necessary? Are you turned on by a guy who shows up after you've told him you need a night out with your friends? A guy who's afraid to let you out of his sight? Of course not. All of us--men and women--want a "prize" when it comes to dating and relationships. We want someone who will treat us well, but who isn't overly available. Overly available people are not interesting. People who have places to go and people to see are exciting--and a bit mysterious. Keep a full life, and you will be interesting. You will be captivating. That man you're so crazy about will definitely come back for more! info@womens411.com (Terry Hernon MacDonald) Fri, 21 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0500